Signs a older woman is attracted to you sexually

"People are more complicated than the masks they wear in society." ― Robert Greene, "The Art of Seduction".

This statement above applies to women in particular because there's more to them than meets the eye. They have a way of slaying the other person with eyes and subtle gestures. If a woman is interested in you, she will not tell you directly, rather she will drop signs that she wants to sleep with you. Every woman has a different way of showing her interest in a man and she does this through body language, texting, flirting or other clues. But it all boils down to how you approach her and act on her consent.

5 Steamy Signs to Look For

When you are dating a woman or simply know her, you might not be paying attention to signs that she wants to sleep with you. These gestures might seem innocent or friendly on the surface but, in reality, she wants to be physically intimate with you. You can join her in this game and build sexual tension but be sure that she is ready to take it to the next level. To know what to do, look for the following signs that a woman wants to sleep with you.

1. Gentle touching

Women usually don't like to show their attraction and interest in you. She will start with lively and casual conversations and gently touch you a few times. Most women are shy, so she will tap your shoulder playfully with a smile on her face. Sometimes, she will hit your chest with her fist while laughing. Other signs of attraction include "accidentally" touching your knee or hands. Touching you once or twice in the entire encounter doesn't count but if she is doing it every time she meets you, then she is most likely attracted to you. It's an innocent and indirect way of flirting that can develop your interest in her if you are paying some attention. According to the "Journal of Sex Research", these non-verbal cues and flirting are used by women to attract a potential partner.

2. Sexy and stylish dressing

Every woman has a different style and fashion sense but if she starts giving more attention to her dressing than usual when she is around you, chances are she wants to get your attention. A prim and proper woman starts loosening the top two buttons of her shirt when she is with you or she wears sexy outfits while going out with you. Compliment her and see how this sexual tension unfolds.

Sometimes, a woman older than you might show interest in you. Instead of wearing boring colors and styles, she will dress to look more attractive. This might be one of the signs an older woman wants to sleep with you. A mature woman usually knows what she wants. So, she will be bold and confident in her style and dressing in order to impress you.

3. Texting or more like sexting?

It is one of the obvious signs a woman wants to sleep with you. Imagine a situation like this: you are chilling at home, it's nighttime, and you get a text from the girl you are dating. It might be a sex joke. If she is a shy girl, she can simply send a "thinking about you" or "want to be with you right now" message. It is a bit obvious that she is sexually interested in you and wants to convey that she wants something to happen between you two in the near future. When something like this happens and you are also interested in her, you should go ahead and build a comfort zone with her. When she is relaxed in your presence and doesn't mind when you send a kiss emoji over the phone or put your hand on her waist, you can take the next step with her consent.

4. A passionate kiss

When you move past the initial touch barrier and get to the kissing stage, the way she kisses you will reveal her hidden passion and desire. If her kiss is long and passionate, then she wants to ignite that fire in you that's burning inside her. When you experience this kind of passion, don't waste a lot of time talking. Go along with this foreplay and show her your intentions before making the ultimate move. Your confidence will impress her and it can change the nature of your relationship from friendly to intimate.

5. Inviting you to her house late at night

If a woman invites you to her place at night, it means that she trusts you. It doesn't necessarily mean that she wants to have sex right away. She might be testing waters with you to know how far she can go with you. Respecting personal space and boundaries is important even when you know that she is clearly interested in sleeping with you. Give her some time to form a close attachment with you. Be careful as taking initiative before developing a level of comfort with her will not turn out very well. Take the lead when she is ready to be intimate with you. At this stage, you can have an amazingly intimate experience with her that may turn into something more.

Have Confidence in Yourself

It's interesting how a woman can stimulate your imagination and make you want more, but be hard to get at the same time. She will only let you come closer when she knows that you have confidence in yourself (not overconfidence, however). If you are extremely nervous to do anything about the signs that a woman wants to sleep with you, she will lose interest in you. If you notice signs like gentle touching, sexy dressing, sexy texting and conversations, passionate kissing, or if she invites you to her place, she clearly wants something more and you should lead the way. Instead of waiting too long, develop an attachment and kiss her. After all, if both of you want to be intimate, then why not?

"They learn to hit the mind first, stimulate imagination, make men want more, create feelings of hope and despair one after another - that is the nature of seduction" ― Nguyen Thi Kim Anh.